Your Desires Matter

affirming mental health care for individuals and relationships exploring kink, polyamory, and open relationship lifestyles

At Freelife Counseling, we provide a safe, non-judgmental space for people exploring consensual non-monogamy, kink, or alternative relationship structures. Working with a therapist who understands the unique dynamics of these lifestyles allows you to explore your desires, relationships, and identity without shame or misunderstanding.

Building True Acceptance

Your relationship choices and sexual interests are an important part of who you are. Yet many people exploring kink, polyamory, or open relationships experience stigma, judgment, or misunderstanding—sometimes even from mental health professionals.

These experiences can affect self-esteem, intimacy, communication, and mental health. You don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. Our therapists offer a supportive, affirming environment to help you feel understood, validated, and empowered in your relationships and personal growth.

Living Authentically

Many clients seek therapy not only for relationship support, but also for broader mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, stress, or life transitions. Freelife therapists affirm your lifestyle while helping you navigate challenges and build healthier relationships and personal well-being.

“Adults exploring consensual non-monogamy often experience higher levels of stigma and misunderstanding from society and even mental health providers.”

We are here to help you feel confident, understood, and supported as you embrace your authentic relationships and desires.

Why Choose Freelife Counseling?

  • 100% affirming, inclusive therapy for people in kink, polyamorous, and open relationships

  • Experienced therapists trained in sexual diversity and non-monogamy concerns

  • Collaborative therapy tailored to your goals, relationship dynamics, and personal growth

  • Flexible in-person and virtual therapy options across Illinois

Your desires, relationships, and sexual identity are valid. Your story deserves to be heard.

Unique Experiences in Kink, Poly, & Open Relationships

Freelife therapists are experienced in the specific dynamics of alternative relationship and sexual lifestyles, including:

  • Navigating jealousy, boundaries, and communication in polyamorous or open relationships

  • Exploring kink, BDSM, or fetish interests safely and consensually

  • Managing relationship transitions, agreements, and conflicts

  • Addressing stigma, internalized shame, or social isolation

  • Supporting mental health, self-esteem, and authentic self-expression

  • Balancing multiple partners, family, and personal responsibilities

Therapy provides a space where you can explore all aspects of your identity and relationships without fear of judgment or having to explain your lifestyle to be accepted.

Whether you’re exploring kink, managing multiple relationships, or navigating open relationship dynamics, you deserve a therapist who affirms your choices and supports your mental health.

Reach out to Freelife Counseling today and find a therapist who truly understands kink, polyamory, and open relationships.

“LGBTQ individuals are nearly three times more likely to experience a mental health condition due to discrimination and stigma.”

– National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)