Your Story Matters

affirming mental health care for gay men in Illinois

At Freelife Counseling, we provide a safe, affirming space for gay men to explore, heal, and grow. Working with a therapist who truly understands the unique experiences of gay men means you can show up as your full self - without fear of judgment or misunderstanding.

Building True Connection

Being a gay man shapes how you experience relationships, intimacy, identity, and community. But many gay men have grown up in environments that were not fully supportive or affirming. The impact of stigma, rejection, or isolation can show up in self-esteem, relationships, and overall mental health.

You don’t have to carry these challenges alone. Our therapists are here to walk alongside you, offering support, understanding, and practical tools for living a life where you feel connected and whole.

Living Authentically

Many gay men seek therapy not only for identity-related concerns but also for the everyday struggles of life: anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, or navigating big life transitions. At Freelife, we affirm your identity while helping you work through any area of your mental health.

We know that living authentically isn’t always easy—but therapy can give you the tools and support you need to feel grounded in who you are and how you connect with others.

“46% of LGBTQ adults have reported experiencing discrimination at some point in their lives.” – The Trevor Project

Our affirming therapists are here to help you build confidence, resilience, and a deeper sense of belonging.

Why Choose Freelife Counseling?

  • 100% affirming, inclusive environment for gay men and the LGBTQ+ community

  • Experienced therapists trained in the mental health needs of gay men

  • Supportive, collaborative therapy tailored to your goals

  • Flexible in-person and virtual therapy options across Illinois

Your identity is valid. Your relationships matter. Your story deserves to be heard.

Unique Experiences of Gay Men

At Freelife, we recognize the specific challenges that many gay men face:

  • Navigating dating, intimacy, and healthy relationships

  • Addressing internalized homophobia and shame

  • Coping with discrimination, stigma, and family rejection

  • Building confidence and self-acceptance

  • Exploring identity and belonging in the LGBTQ+ community

  • Balancing career, friendships, and personal life

Therapy can be a space where you feel fully seen—not just as a client, but as a gay man with your own story, strengths, and struggles.

Whether you’re seeking support for relationships, self-acceptance, or broader mental health concerns, you deserve a therapist who understands the unique experiences of gay men.

Reach out to Freelife Counseling today and connect with an affirming therapist who truly sees you.

“LGBTQ individuals are nearly three times more likely to experience a mental health condition due to discrimination and stigma.”

– National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)